Day 6: Five people who mean a lot to me.
I think this is a loaded question. And the Libra in me hates it.
What if I offend someone who isn't in the 5? And again, it goes wihout saying,
Alexander and Eric would be first on the list/
This question makes me dislike this blog challenge but I'm committed...
1. Leadership Camp Senior Counselors:
They inspire me, challenge me, and push me to better than I am. They remind me of the good in people. Despite camp being seven days, and all of us are on our best behavior, I trust these folks to be honest with me. They are incredible people who live the Rainier Magic every day of their lives. It's just who they are and I aspire to be more like them. Plus, they listened to me complain about "the job" for six years and were the first ones I wanted to tell when I was offered it this year. They get it. And me.
2 and 3. My brother and sister:
Our relationships have strengthened over the years. I can be totally pissed off at them in one minute and completely defend them in the next. I am the oldest of three and I have always and continue to love them with a fierceness to protect and hover over them. I have learned that they don't need my protection so our adult friendships have morphed into even playing fields. While they are the first to frustrate me; they are also the first to support, encourage, and love me. I am immensely proud of them for where they are in their lives, careers, and with their families.
4. My cousin Jodie:
She is my best friend. She validates me. She calls me on my shit. She makes me a better person. I don't see her near as much as I should (what happened to our monthly dinner visit plan?). When I do see her, she has to make the trek to us but she never complains about it. I should make more of an effort but she gets where I am in life and accepts me for it. She loves my husband. And she loves my son almost as much as I do. And she cried about my cat, too.
5. My ASB students:
They rock. They push me to do my best as a teacher. And they have totally stepped up with a new advisor who knew nothing about their plans for the year. They know I am a control freak but have understood, better than I it seems, that I would be busy with this new job. So, they have stepped in when needed, without being asked, and not one single task has been dropped by the team. That's saying a lot when working with 40+ student-leaders. And they eat all my candy...which my arse doesn't need, so it's a good thing.
Ok, maybe that wasn't as hard as I thought. Just don't be mad if you didn't make the list. It did only allow for five people and these people came to mind tonight.
Thank you for making me smile today! I haven't been on the computer for 3 days, and I get to catch up many days at once. I think that the things that we regret are all of the things that make us stronger. I think that we can only learn from things that we feel we didn't do "right". That said...i love you and I am glad that it was only 10 years. It could have been forever. It also means that we have another 45 ahead of us....guess it all depends upon how old I actually get!
ReplyDeleteSorry about Schmoo...I hope that you realize how much he was loved and that you gave him some great years filled with lots of love!
xoxoxo
chell